Apology Letters to Girlfriend.
Causing You Pain and Confusion

I am so sorry for hurting you and for the confusion and sadness I caused. You didn't deserve to feel unloved or unimportant because of me. I see now how my words and distance made you question my feelings, and that breaks my heart. I take full responsibility for making you upset — for not being clear, for not showing you the affection and reassurance you needed, and for letting my actions make you doubt us. I should have noticed when you were hurting and stopped to listen instead of letting things slide. That was on me. I love you, and my feelings for you are real. To make this right, I will be more present and intentional: I will tell you how I feel clearly, check in daily about how you’re doing, put away distractions when we’re together, and ask what you need instead of assuming. If there are specific things you want me to change, tell me and I will do the work to follow through. I’m committed to earning back your trust. I miss us being okay and I miss your smile because of me. I don’t want to pressure you, but when you’re ready I want to listen and understand everything you felt. I’m here, I’m sorry, and I want to fix this with you.