Apology letter to GirlfriendNot Giving You Enough Time

I'm sorry for not giving you the time and attention you needed and for being unavailable while I got caught up in my own things. I know my choices left you feeling lonely, unimportant, and hurt, and I hate that I caused you that pain. I want to take responsibility: I let other things take priority over us and I didn't communicate what was happening or ask for help. Saying it wasn't my fault was selfish and hurtful — regardless of how I feel pulled, it's my responsibility to make room for you and to tell you when I can't be there. I understand how this looked and felt from your side — cancelled plans, quiet messages, and you holding back because you didn't want to be a burden. That was unfair to you. You deserve someone who shows up, who makes time when it matters, and who makes you feel seen. To make this right, I will set clearer boundaries so work and other commitments can't slide into our time. I'll schedule regular time for us, put my phone away during our moments together, and check in when something unavoidable comes up. If you want, I can share my calendar and let you know ahead of time when I’m stretched so we can plan around it. I love you and I want to do better. When you're ready, I want to listen to how you feel and what you need from me—no pressure, just an honest conversation when you want it.