Apology Letters to Girlfriend.
Sending Overly Long, Immature Messages and Acting Childishly

I'm sorry for typing those long, messy messages and for behaving immaturely through text. I know my words came off as defensive, dramatic, and disrespectful, and that hurt you. I take full responsibility for letting my frustration turn into rambling, passive-aggressive, and sometimes childish messages instead of talking to you like the person I care about. I understand this made you feel dismissed, exhausted, and probably misunderstood. You deserve clarity, calm, and respect — not a text chain that twists into an argument. I see how my tone and length overwhelmed you and kept us from resolving things the way we should: together and kindly. I won't make excuses. Going forward I will pause before responding when I'm upset, draft and re-read messages, and choose a phone call or an in-person conversation for important or emotional topics. If I feel myself spiraling, I'll step away for 20–30 minutes to cool down instead of sending more words that cause harm. I'm also open to any boundaries you want me to follow for texting. I want to make this right: if you're willing, I'd like to talk when you're ready, listen without defending myself, and show you through actions that I can do better. Take your time — I respect whatever space you need — and when you're ready, I want to hear how you felt and what you need from me.