Apology Letters to Friend.
Making You Angry Through My Actions

I'm really sorry for making you angry—especially because it was my actions that caused it. I said/did things that were thoughtless and dismissive, and I can see how that left you feeling hurt, frustrated, and like I didn't respect your perspective. I take full responsibility. I shouldn't have snapped (or brushed off what you were saying), canceled plans without a proper heads-up, or acted like my schedule mattered more than your time. Those choices were mine, and I won’t try to soften them with excuses. I get that my behavior made you feel unimportant, and that isn’t okay. I want to do better. Practically, I'm committing to three things: slowing down before I respond so I don't say hurtful stuff, actually listening and reflecting back what you tell me instead of jumping in with my own take, and being clearer/earlier about my plans so I don't leave you hanging. If there’s something specific you want me to change, tell me and I’ll work on it. I value our friendship and hate that I put a wedge between us. I know an apology doesn't fix it overnight, but I hope it’s a start. When you’re ready, I’d really like to talk about this and hear how you experienced it—no pressure, take whatever time you need. I care about you and I want to make this right.