Apology Letters to Romantic Partner.
Bringing Up a Painful Topic

I’m really sorry for bringing up that topic, knowing how much it hurts you. I hate that I caused you sadness, and I hate myself for making you feel that way. The last thing I ever wanted was to hurt you or put any distance between us. I see now how careless I was, and I take full responsibility for not thinking through how it would affect you. You mean so much to me, and it breaks my heart to see you upset because of something I said. I want you to know I’m committed to being more thoughtful and sensitive, to really listen and understand before I say things that might hurt you. I don’t want us to lose what we have over this. If you’re willing, I’d like to talk when you’re ready—no pressure, just whenever you feel up to it. I want to hear how you feel and figure out how we can move forward together. I love you, and I believe we can fix this if we both try. Please take all the time you need; I’m here when you’re ready.