Apology Letters to Romantic Partner.
Neglecting Your Feelings

I’m really sorry for how I’ve been acting lately. I know I haven’t been the boyfriend you deserve—I’ve been careless with your feelings and distant when you needed me close. Looking back, I see how my actions have hurt you, made you question us, and left you feeling alone. That’s on me, and I take full responsibility for letting you down. I haven’t been the partner I promised to be, and I hate that I caused you pain or doubt. You deserve honesty, respect, and someone who shows up fully, and I haven’t lived up to that. I want you to know I’m committed to changing—not just saying it, but actually doing the work to be more present, attentive, and reliable. I’m already working on understanding my own mistakes better and making sure I don’t repeat them. I don’t expect this to fix everything overnight, and I respect whatever space or time you need. When you’re ready, I’d really like to talk and hear how you’re feeling. I want to listen, understand, and find a way forward together—if that’s what you want too. Until then, please know how deeply sorry I am and how much I care about us.