Apology Letters to Romantic Partner.
Causing Unexpected Discomfort During Intimacy

I want to start by saying how sorry I am for what happened last night. I realize that when I accidentally thrust into you, it caught you completely off guard and probably made you feel uncomfortable or even hurt. That was never my intention, and I feel awful knowing I crossed a boundary without meaning to. I take full responsibility for not being more careful and for not checking in with you in the moment. I should have been more attuned to your comfort and your signals. I understand if this made you feel disrespected or shaken, and I’m truly sorry for causing you that distress. Moving forward, I want to be more mindful and communicate better so something like this doesn’t happen again. Your feelings and boundaries matter deeply to me, and I want to make sure we’re always in sync, especially in moments as intimate as those. If you want to talk about how you’re feeling or what I can do to make this right, I’m here and ready to listen. I love you and want us to feel safe and connected, always. Take all the time you need—I’ll be here when you’re ready.