Apology letter to FriendDisrespecting You With My Words

I'm sorry for the way I spoke earlier — specifically when I said, “What will you do by knowing that?” I realize that came off careless and disrespectful, and I take full responsibility for that. I wasn't thinking about how it would sound, and that was my mistake. I can see how my tone and choice of words made you feel dismissed and hurt. That matters to me because I truly respect you, and the last thing I want is to make you feel belittled or unimportant. Saying it casually because I thought you already knew was thoughtless, and I should have been more mindful of your feelings in the moment. I’m genuinely sorry for the impact my words had. I will do better: I’ll pause before I speak when I’m joking or being casual, check in if something could come across the wrong way, and be more careful with tone and phrasing. If you’d prefer, I’m completely willing to apologize in front of everyone so it’s clear I meant no disrespect. I value our friendship and hate that I let you down here. Whenever you’re ready, I’d like to talk it through or hear how I can make this right — no pressure, just whenever you feel up to it.