Crossing a Line at the Party
To Harshita my girlfriend,
I know what I did at the Diwali party hurt you, and I hate that I put my arm around another girl. It doesn't matter that it wasn't intentional—I wasn't thinking about you in that moment, and that's on me. You had every right to feel the way you did, and I'm genuinely sorry for making you feel disrespected.
But I also need to say this honestly: when things get hard, I feel you pulling away from us completely, and it scares me. I'm not perfect—not even close—and neither are you. But the difference is, I stay. I keep showing up even when we're fighting. And I need you to do the same, because we can't fix anything if you give up on us every time we stumble.
I love you too much to lose you over this. I'm sorry for what happened, and I'm asking you not to give up on us. Let's work through this together, because I genuinely believe we're worth it.
Ur uju :(